Cyberbullies on Campus

 

Darby Dickerson*


I. Introduction

A new challenge facing educators is how to deal with the high-tech incivility that has crept onto our campuses.  Technology has changed the way students approach learning, and has spawned new forms of rudeness.  Students play computer games, check e-mail, watch DVDs, and participate in chat rooms during class.  They answer ringing cell phones and dare to carry on conversations mid-lesson. 

Dealing with these types of incivilities is difficult enough, but another, more sinister e-culprit — the cyberbully — has also arrived on law-school campuses.  Cyberbullies exploit technology to control and intimidate others on campus.1  They use web sites, blogs, and IMs2 to malign professors and classmates.3  They craft e-mails that are offensive, boorish, and cruel.  They blast professors and administrators for grades given and policies passed; and, more often than not, they mix in hateful attacks on our character, motivations, physical attributes, and intellectual abilities.4  They disrupt classes, cause tension on campus, and interfere with our educational mission.  We have cyberbullies in our midst, and we must deal with them. 

My goals in this article are to introduce the law-school community to the problem of cyberbullies, and to alert deans, administrators, and professors to the risks associated with this form of bullying — so that the problem can be acknowledged and addressed, and so that we may all learn and work in as safe an environment as possible.  Part II will describe common characteristics of bullies and cyberbullies, how bullying affects victims, and how bystanders fit into the equation.  Part III will address bullies and cyberbullies on college and law-school campuses.  Part IV will present solutions law schools can adopt to reclaim our campuses and classrooms from high-tech tormentors. 

II. The Problem

A. Bullies

Bullying is a type of aggression that involves a persistent, unwelcome pattern of intimidation and harassment by one person designed to humiliate, frighten, or isolate another.5  The definition most commonly used by researchers provides that "[a] person is . . . bullied or victimized when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more persons." 6  "Negative actions" occur "when someone intentionally inflicts, or attempts to inflict, injury or discomfort upon another."7  Negative actions can be physical (such as pushing, punching,8 and stealing), verbal (such as spreading rumors, teasing,9 or taunting), or emotional (such as humiliating, shunning, and excluding).11  In most cases, the bully acts without being provoked or threatened by the victim.12  Bullying can be direct or indirect: "direct bullying involves open attacks on a victim, while indirect bullying is often covert . . . and frequently takes the form of social isolation and exclusion from a group."12  All bullying is characterized by an imbalance of power — either physical or psychological13 — between the bully and the bullied.14       Researchers have divided bullies into four groups: (1) physical bullies, (2) verbal bullies, (3) relational bullies, and (4) reactive bullies.15  Physical bullies are most often male and typically use direct actions, such as hitting and kicking.16  Verbal bullies use words to attack their victims.17  Relational bullies usually are females who exercise power to exclude others from the group.18  Reactive bullies tend to act impulsively; they taunt others into fighting, fight back, and then claim self-defense.19

All bullies want to control and intimidate their victims.20  Bullies are aggressive toward peers.21  They tend to be impulsive and have a low tolerance for frustration.22  Younger bullies are often unwilling to accept others' ideas, to be effective followers, or to negotiate.23  Most bullies attempt to take advantage of the victim's perceived weakness — whether it be gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, perceived strength, physical appearance or dexterity, intellectual ability, or something else.24 

Many bullies have been subjected to physical or emotional abuse;25 in fact, some are the victims of other bullies.26  Evidence exists that bullying can be an inter-generational problem within families.27  In a study that followed bullies as they grew up, researchers found that children who were bullies at age 14 were likely, at age 32, to have children who were bullies.28 Bullies exhibit high levels of anger and have a more positive view of violence than students in general.29  In addition, many bullies — especially those victimized by others  — experience elevated levels of depression.30  Studies also reflect that bullies frequently suffer from mental-health difficulties such as attention-deficit disorder and oppositional-conduct disorder.31  Moreover, children who bully others are at risk for engaging in other types of problematic behavior as adults.   For example, "[a]pproximately 60 percent of boys who were characterized as bullies in grades 6-9 had at least one conviction by the age of 24."32  Research also demonstrates that excessive drinking and substance abuse are common among bullies.33 

Some bullies crave attention.34  Others are simply too self-absorbed to recognize the actual impact they have on their victims.35  Common misconceptions about bullies include that they emerge primarily in large classes, act based on competition for grades, and have low self-esteem.36  To the contrary, the percentage of students bullied in small classes is slightly higher than those bullied in large classes.37  Studies also show that low grades or lack of success in school do not cause bullies to act out,38 and that most bullies have normal to high levels of self-esteem and often are popular among classmates.39 

Educators should also know that consumerism plays a role in enabling bullies.  Consumerism causes some bullies to view education as a product to be sold or a ticket that must be punched to move to the next box in the game.  Thus, they view the academic community with contempt and do not hesitate to disrupt the learning process.40 

B.        Cyberbullies

With the advent of the Internet, e-mail, and other forms of e-technology, bullying has morphed into cyberbullying.41  

Cyberbullying involves the use of information and communication technologies such as e-mail, cell phone and pager text messages, instant messaging, defamatory personal Web sites, and defamatory online personal polling Web sites, to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behaviour by an individual or group, that is intended to harm others.42

While technology has helped advance learning and teaching, it can be used for nefarious purposes.  Technology allows tormentors to act under a veil of anonymity, which only increases the maliciousness.43  Technology affords bullies 24/7 access to potential victims, and opens the opportunity for persistent, unending harassment from which victims are hard-pressed to escape.44  Technology lets bullies act instantaneously on their impulses; it has erased the reflection time between planning and commission.45  Technology allows the instigator's venom to be spread to an international audience,46 causing the victim tremendous embarrassment and shame.  Technology provides a forum within which electronic mobs can form quickly and almost effortlessly, which draws more people into the offensive activity.  In sum, technology allows bullies to be meaner, more frequently, with more allies, before an inestimable audience.  It gives them a greater sense of invincibility and inhibits their fear of being caught and punished.

As noted above, cyberbullies are emboldened by the anonymity and pseudonymity that e-mail and the Internet can provide.47  They hide behind screen names and multiple electronic addresses.  Skillful cyberbullies route messages in a way that cannot easily be traced — and they know that most service providers will not provide identity information to schools.48    Unlike traditional bullies, cyberbullies do not rely on physical power differences, but they still seek to control their victims by inflicting verbal, emotional, or psychological abuse.49  Interestingly, females are more likely than males to be cyberbullies.50  And like the teens in the movie Mean Girls,51 women cyberbullies tend to target other women.52

Cyberbullies fall into five categories, which are akin to the categories of traditional bullies:53  (1) "power hungry" cyberbullies, (2) "revenge of the nerds" cyberbullies, (3) "mean girls," (4) "vengeful angels," and (5) "inadvertent cyberbullies."54  "Power hungry" cyberbullies exert authority to show they are powerful enough to control others.  They want their victims to fear them, and they crave an audience.  They pick on others to evoke a reaction, and they often brag about their antics.55 

"Revenge of the nerds" cyberbullies usually are females or physically smaller males; they are often criticized by classmates for not being popular or cool.  These cyberbullies want to show they can control and intimidate victims by using their superior verbal and intellectual skills. They are technically proficient and thrive on anonymity.  They rarely would be traditional bullies, because they fear direct confrontation.56

As the name implies, "mean girls" are typically female cyberbullies.  Mean girls act as a group and often bully for "fun."  Mean girls "want others to know who they are and that they have the power to cyberbully others."57  They thrive on cliques and excluding others from their group.  If the victim does not react, mean girls quickly quit for lack of  "entertainment value."58

"Vengeful angels" are cyberbullies who adopt the role of protector or retaliator.  They frequently have been bullied by another, or are friends with a victim.  Vengeful angels view their victims as "bad people," and rationalize their conduct as legitimate and necessary.  They typically work alone, but may share information with close friends.59

"Inadvertent cyberbullies" do not consider themselves to be bullies.  "They may be pretending to be tough online, or role playing, or they may be reacting to hateful or provocative messages they have received."60  They typically are reactive, not proactive, and often respond to others without thinking about how their actions will affect others.61

Cyberbullies have a range of weapons at their disposal.  They can send nasty e-mails62 or cell-phone text messages, and can use camera phones to snap unflattering pictures that can be quickly distributed via web or e-mail.63  They can engage the victim in an IM conversation, trick the person into revealing sensitive information, and then forward that information to others as a "joke."64  They can hack into the victim's e-mail account, impersonate the account holder, and send messages that contain embarrassing or insulting information about the victim's friends.65

They can set up a web site that posts hateful statements, distortions, and fabrications meant to disgrace another,66 or they can participate in chat rooms in which teachers and other students are taunted and belittled.67  They can establish virtual polling places and voting booths on sites such as www.freevote.com and hold elections for the ugliest, fattest, or dumbest person in class.68  They can use the technique of "boycotting" to intentionally exclude a person from an online group, such as a chat room or IM buddies list.69  

Cyberbullies also can use others to do their dirty digital work.  This phenomenon is known as "cyberbullying by proxy" or "third-party cyberbullying."  One example occurs when the bully convinces others to send messages designed to anger the victim; when the victim responds in anger or frustration, the bully forwards that e-mail to a teacher, Internet service provider, or authority, who in turn punishes the victim.70 

Cyberbullies can target a single victim, or can choose to torment an entire class by interfering with the learning process.71  During class, cyberbullies might send IMs or e-mail messages that distract other students.  They might participate in a chat room and coordinate activities — such as directing participants to make a certain noise at a certain time — that distract the teacher or student speaking.  They might send messages denigrating the professor or a classmate, thus damaging the victim's reputation.  During an online class, they might post remarks that chill other students' participation.72

The examples described above are just some of the current tactics cyberbullies use.  Unfortunately, as technology evolves, cyberbullies undoubtedly will invent new — and even more extreme — ways to control and intimidate their victims. 

C.        Victims

The victims of bullying conduct are not a homogenous group.  One paradigm divides victims into categories based on behavior that attracts bullies to target the individual.  Under this approach, victims are considered to be either "passive" or "provocative."73 

Research regarding traditional bullying indicates that most victims are passive.74  Passive victims tend to be loners and introverts, and they tend to blame themselves for difficulties — all characteristics that make them attractive targets for bullies.75  In the K-12 setting, studies show that passive victims are "more anxious and insecure than students in general"; they typically suffer from low self-esteem and act in ways that signal they are not likely to retaliate if attacked.76  Passive victims "avoid aggression and confrontation and lack the confidence or skill to elicit support from peers."77  A smaller group of victims, known as "provocative victims," has "both anxious and aggressive reaction patterns."78  They often are disruptive and behave in ways that irritate those around them.79 

Another study has divided victims into categories based on how they respond to bullying conduct.  Under this approach, victims are considered to be "counteraggressive," "helpless," or "nonchalant."80  Counteraggressive victims are willing to confront the bully; they will speak up when bullied, and will ask for help.81  They also try to win over bystanders and attempt to make others hate the bully.82  Helpless victims try to avoid the conflict.  They are not likely to confront the bully, are apt to cry, and may try to avoid the bully by staying home.83  Nonchalant victims try to stay calm and give the outward impression that they do not take the bullying seriously.84

The effects of bullying on victims can be devastating.  Victims of bullying can experience shame,85 problems in school,86 embarrassment, fear, and various stress-related problems, including panic attacks, insomnia, loss of concentration, clinical depression,87 eating disorders,88 and other physical ailments.89  One study found that many victims suffer from attention-deficit disorder; the condition occurs because victims "may feel the need to constantly monitor their environment, anxiously anticipating the next victimization episode."90  Another study concluded that "a cycle of peer rejection, loneliness, drunkenness, self-derogation, depression, alcohol problems and being bullied can occur" in victims.91   The psychological harm suffered by victims of cyberbullying may be even greater because it is more difficult for them to escape the tormentor, and because they often do not know the cyberbully's identity, which enhances the apprehension.92

Some victims simply suffer in silence because they fear ostracism, retaliation,93 or escalation in the bullying.94  Some leave the environment — be it a workplace or school — hoping that the harassment will end when they depart.95  Some seek help from friends, teachers, or others.96  But others, out of desperation, exact revenge on their tormentors and those they perceive allowed the tormentor to thrive.97  Some take their own lives.98

Research regarding faculty members who were bullied by students reveals they are reluctant to report the problems because they fear others will view them as incompetent or unable to manage their classes:

This may be especially true for junior faculty who worry about poor teaching evaluations and the ongoing promotion/tenure review process.  Colleagues have revealed that disclosing problematic student conduct may result in questions regarding their teaching ability and suitability for the university/college classroom.  The private nature of teaching can contribute to a silence regarding instruction, faculty-student interaction, and student behavior.  Consequently, what transpires in classrooms is rarely discussed and faculty may feel that it is their duty to resolve issues independently.99

Others stay silent because they doubt administrators will support them, and because they fear student reprisal.100  Of course, the reactions of younger victims are even more severe,101 and studies involving child-victims show that they "rarely seek help from adults or their peers."102 

D.        Bystanders

Bystanders are the third group affected by and involved in bullying.  Bystanders can be passive or active.103  Passive bystanders typically observe bullying but lack the self-confidence to intervene or assist.104 Bystanders typically choose not to intervene because they fear getting injured, dread becoming the bully's next target, worry about making the situation worse, or simply do not know what to do.105

Other bystanders cheer the bully, or actively participate in the bullying.106 

[M]any students who persistently witness bullying begin to approve of the behavior and begin to blame the victim for the problem.  Many go further and begin to participate in the bullying. One study of 164 students in a large urban area revealed that peers cooperated in more than 85% of the incidents of bullying identified in the study.107 

In a cyberbully situation, anonymity can increase the odds of bystanders supporting bullies and participating in their bad acts.  Studies of crowd behavior show that members who perceive they are anonymous are more likely to shed their inhibitions and act in antisocial ways; they also are subject to increased suggestibility from the leaders.108 

A third group of bystanders actively intervenes to help the victim.109  Little research exists about bystanders in this category or what motivates them to help.  The answer likely is that they know and like the victim.110 

Because most students are bystanders, they can be a powerful force in either encouraging or stopping the bully.111  For this reason, schools should consider them for a significant role when searching for solutions to the problems of bullying and cyberbullying.

III.        Bullies and Cyberbullies in Higher Education

Although bullying is most common at the K-12 level, it does not end there.112  For example, one recent study of bullies on college campuses found that more than

60% of the students reported having observed a student being bullied by another student . . . .  More than 6% of the students reported having been bullied by another student occasionally or very frequently, and . . . over 5% of the students stated that they bullied students occasionally or very frequently.113  

Similarly, a study conducted at a college111 in the United Kingdom found that 9.6% of the students were bullied.115  This study also concluded that the following factors can enable bullies in the university setting: larger classes, professors without teacher training qualifications, and more unstructured time for students.116

Law schools are not immune from bullies and cyberbullies.  In the past few years, I have noticed a handful of students who, when they communicate with professors and administrators, exhibit bullying tendencies.  They send numerous messages, and the messages are little more than personal attacks.  For these persistent offenders, we first try counseling; if counseling fails, we proceed with discipline under the law school's Code of Student Professionalism and Conduct.117

One serious incident occurred right before finals in Spring 2004 when a student "spoofed" an e-mail account to make it appear that I, the Dean, sent the message.118  The message went to about two dozen students and stated they would be prosecuted under the honor code for participating in an underground newsletter that had been circulating around campus for several months.  The students who received the messages were distraught and distracted from their studies, and it took me many hours to assure them that they were not in trouble.119 

Another example occurred during Fall 2004.  Around Thanksgiving, I was given transcripts from a chat room in which about twenty first-semester students had been participating during classes.  The transcripts were shocking.  The participants bragged about alcohol and drug use, played games that focused on a certain male body part, threatened violence against females, ridiculed classmates based on religion and skin color, and speculated about the sexual orientation of one professor.  The students also coordinated to disrupt class by making noises on cue. 

Because the students made little effort to conceal their identities within the chat room, we were able to identify virtually all of the participants — who were almost evenly divided between men and women — and required them to participate in professionalism training and to help present programs on professionalism during new-student orientation.  Most showed remorse and indicated that they did not comprehend how unprofessional and hurtful their conduct was.  But the true bullies were adamant they had done nothing wrong and only wanted to know which classmate had squealed; we imposed additional disciplinary sanctions120 on these students and continue to closely monitor their conduct.

A third example involved both bullying and cyberbullying:  two groups of students traded numerous e-mail messages, several of which could be interpreted as threatening physical violence.  While the e-mail war escalated, both groups experienced property damage at their off-campus residences.  One student was suspended on an interim basis pending completion of the investigation, and when the property damage occurred, local police became involved.  The problems continued over a period of several weeks.  Although the students did graduate — due to our inability to trace the threatening e-mail messages — all ended up with black marks on their records, and it remains to be seen whether they will pass muster with the board of bar examiners.

These incidents come from a single student body in which the vast majority of students are courteous, motivated, and engaged.  And these are just a sampling of the incidents about which I, as Dean, am aware.121   Logic, therefore, dictates that the problem of cyberbullies is even greater — on my campus and yours.122

IV.       Solutions

Because cyberbullies threaten the health and welfare of our campus communities and the overall educational process, we must search for and implement solutions.  Law schools must stop bullies.  If left unchecked, they will enter the legal profession, where they undoubtedly will subject co-workers, subordinates, opposing counsel, and clients to their despicable conduct — and further damage the reputation of lawyers.  The bottom line is that we must not tolerate or enable bullies to survive, or thrive, on our campuses.  We must, in the words of Rudolph Giuliani, "stand up to bullies."123  Below are several solutions that law schools should explore; the mix of solutions will, of course, depend on specific campus cultures.

A.        Take back the classroom

Professors should ensure that bullies cannot usurp the classroom environment.124  They should include in their syllabus clear expectations about mutual respect and classroom conduct.  These expectations should include information about bullying conduct, and should indicate that such conduct will not be tolerated.125  Professors should not assume that students will read or  understand the syllabus, and should take time to explain expectations during class.  Professors also must enforce the stated expectations; for example, they might incorporate professionalism as an element of the final grade.

In addition to holding students accountable, professors should model the conduct they expect from students.126  If students perceive that the professor does not respect others, some will emulate the bad conduct.127  

Professors also should consider the teaching techniques they employ.  While the Socratic method has its virtues, the "Kingsfield version," made famous in The Paper Chase,128 includes bullying tendencies.  For example, Professor Kingsfield used the technique to control and intimidate students — the balance of power weighed entirely in his favor.  He berated and belittled students who did not understand the material, and his goal was to keep even the most prepared students off balance.129  He emphasized doctrine and procedure and virtually ignored the individuals whose lives were affected by the case.130  Teaching students how to parse facts, develop rules, analyze, synthesize, and draw sound conclusion is critical to a sound legal education.  However, other pedagogical techniques — including group problem solving — may help students master these key skills while increasing the level of respect and decreasing the level of incivility, or perceived incivility, in the classroom.  Higher levels of mutual respect will foil most bullies.131

Professors should take time to understand the technology available to students — and should learn how students might use, and misuse, that technology.  Students know that many professors are not tech-savvy, and take advantage of that fact.132 

In addition, professors should disable the Internet connection during classes in which accessing the web is not necessary.  If disabling the Internet is not an option, professors should tell students — in the syllabus and verbally — that they may not plug in Internet connections during class.133

Professors should be mobile and should walk around the room.  They should get to know the students; isolation and large classes erode personal connections that tend to discourage uncivil conduct.134 

Most students shun classroom disruptions, because classmates' bad behavior bothers them just as much as it bothers the professor.  Most want a safe, respectful environment in which to learn.  With this knowledge, professors can use positive peer pressure to help manage the classroom and to thwart the bullies.135  Professors should stress that they want to know if anything — or anyone — is hindering students' ability to learn in the classroom.  They should also discourage students from feeding the bully's ego by participating in the conduct.  Professors should implore students not to watch bullying in silence136 and should urge students to report instances of cyberbullying to the professor's attention, or to the attention of another school representative.  To help facilitate an open dialogue about bullying, professors can ask the class to select one or two ombudspersons with whom they can communicate on a confidential basis.

Professors in online courses should be particularly sensitive to the issue of cyberbullies, because cyberbullies in online courses can quickly disrupt the learning experience for everyone involved.137  Among other solutions, professors should consider preparing course agreements that set the conditions for the course.  The agreement, which students can accept via e-mail, can include key portions of the school's computer use policy and conduct or honor code; it also can articulate conduct that is not acceptable, such as "threatening, harassing, belligerent, and abusive behavior."138  The agreement should allow professors to remove students from the course when a student violates course conduct expectations.139

B.        Teach students about high-tech courtesies

Educators often assume that, because most law students grew up in a high-tech world, they have mastered the proper, courteous use of the Internet, e-mail, and other forms of technology.  But such an assumption is false.  Many young adults are self-taught, and — for better or worse — simply emulate what others have done. 

Law schools should consider providing students, possibly at new student orientation or as part of the student handbook, with a set of expectations about computer and technology use and examples of proper netiquette.140  Schools also should teach students effective anger management techniques, such as typing a formal response using a word-processing program — just as one would prepare a letter, complete with a return address and signature block — and only later copying the text to e-mail.  The formalities of preparing a letter often provide the writer with time to reflect, and time to edit.  Another useful anger-management technique is to draft a response, forward it to one's own account, let it sit overnight, and then reconsider whether to send the message the next day.

C.        Educate students in the discourse of disagreement

The growing incivilities on campus mirror those in society at large.  Politicians spend more time attacking each other than addressing the issues our nation faces.  Highly rated television shows depict people demeaning, yelling at, and even striking other participants.  Many of us have experienced drivers who "flip us off," pass us aggressively, or attempt to run us from the road.

These problems — and the problem of cyberbullies on campus — are due in part to the fact that most individuals have never been taught how to disagree or manage anger.  Given this void in training, many imitate what they see in the public arena.  As educators, we cannot simply assume that our students know how to disagree with others in a respectful, professional way.  Thus, law schools should develop programs to teach the "discourse of disagreement": how to listen respectfully,141 to engage in rational debate, and to state positions in a positive way without personally attacking others.142 

As part of this training, law schools must educate students about how acts of incivility affect others.  We must teach students about empathy and tolerance.  Courses in legal writing, professional responsibility, alternative dispute resolution, interviewing and counseling, appellate practice, business practice, and many others are well suited to provide this type of training.  Using specific examples from the civil rights movement and highlighting the work of nonviolent activists, such as Ghandi and Henry David Thoreau, can help make the theory concrete.143  In addition, sharing cases with students in which lawyers have been censured for unprofessional conduct can help them understand the importance of civility within the legal community.144 Finally, law schools can use extracurricular programs, such as leadership development series, to teach students about civility, anger management, and conflict resolution.

D.        Introduce students to collaborative law and therapeutic jurisprudence

Collaborative law is a process in which the parties and their attorneys contractually commit, in a four-way agreement, to negotiate an out-of-court settlement through open communication and information sharing.  The agreement provides incentives for everyone to aspire to a win-win solution, because if either party initiates an adversarial proceeding, both attorneys must withdraw.145  This type of training, which illustrates that attorneys who cooperate can succeed, will help downplay our tendency to glorify the adversarial process — a process within which bullies can thrive.146 

Therapeutic jurisprudence "focuses on the law's impact on emotional life and psychological well-being.  It recognizes that . . . the law (legal rules, legal procedures, and the behavior of lawyers and judges) often produces consequences in the psychological realm."147  Therapeutic jurisprudence emphasizes "the human, emotional, psychological side of law and the legal process."148   It also recognizes that actions by those within the legal system that impact the psychological well-being and emotional life of clients, parties, and others.149  Introducing students to the theory and application of therapeutic jurisprudence has the potential to increase their interpersonal sensitivities and awareness about how their conduct, both positive and negative, impacts those around them.  Although bullies may not be receptive to the messages of therapeutic jurisprudence, bystanders might be.  The concepts may help to empower them to stand up to the bullies by encouraging them to think more carefully about how the actions of one person psychologically affect others. 

E.        Use codes and policies — and remember the law

Most bullies would stop if we changed the rules and punished bullying conduct.150  Most schools have an honor code or conduct code.  Most often, these codes were enacted to provide for a safe, secure, and respectful learning environment.  These codes, therefore, should be modified to expressly prohibit and punish bullying and cyberbullying.151  For situations in which the bully engages in or threatens physical violence, the codes should allow officials to impose an interim suspension while the investigation is completed.  The codes also should provide for educational and counseling sessions in addition to traditional sanctions for misconduct.  

Law schools also can use other policies to control cyberbullies.  For example, computer policies can be designed to prohibit the improper use of campus computing resources.  These policies should be broad enough to cover individuals who use a non-university e-mail account to bully students, professors, or other university employees.152  Whatever policies and procedures exist, when a bully acts, the bad conduct should be addressed as quickly as possible, because an early response can prevent the situation from escalating.153

In addition, it is worth reminding students that some forms of cyberbullying can constitute crimes, torts, or statutory violations.154  For example, seventeen states have enacted legislation that prohibits bullying in the K-12 setting.155  Moreover, when the bully targets individuals in protected groups, it may constitute sexual or racial harassment.156  Depending on the content of the messages, the bully may be liable in tort for defamation, public disclosure of private facts, invasion of privacy, assault, or intentional infliction of emotional distress.157  He or she also may be subject to federal or state laws concerning telecommunications, online harassment, terrorist threats,158 or stalking.159 

For situations in which an employee or faculty member is the perpetrator, schools should ensure that workplace policies are clearly written to prohibit bullying, should provide regular training that teaches employees to recognize the signs of bullying, and should establish a grievance procedure that will permit the victim and school to stop bullying conduct before it proceeds too far.160

F.         Support the victims

One way to curb bullying is to support the victims and potential victims.  Many victims avoid reporting bullies because they are embarrassed,161 believe the bully will retaliate,162 or fear they will not be believed.163  Similarly, people who observe bullying often will not report it for fear they will be the next target.164  Therefore, schools should encourage victims and bystanders to report bullying conduct, and to the extent possible, promise anonymity and amnesty to those who report the problem.165

Schools should believe victims.  Of course, it is possible for a "victim" to falsely accuse another student of bullying.166  Thus, the best practice is to take reports of bullying seriously and to investigate the situation as quickly and as thoroughly as possible.167

Law schools should establish policies and procedures that will protect victims from retaliation by the bully or the bully's allies.  When a bully is subjected to discipline, school officials must be sure to address, in writing, the consequences of retaliation.  They also should ensure the perpetrator understands the school will impose severe consequences for victim retaliation,168 and that the school considers indirect retaliation to be as serious as direct actions. 

If the bully and victim take classes together, school officials should explore ways to make the victim more comfortable.  For example, they might alter seating assignments in the classroom to put the bully closer to the professor and farther from the victim.  If the conduct occurs during the required curriculum, they also might consider moving the bully to another section after the semester ends.169  Officials might also determine whether the bully should be barred from extracurricular activities in which the victim also participates.  School officials should talk to the victim about services public safety might offer, such as escorts to his or her car.   They should provide or facilitate counseling that will allow victims to move past the injury and to regain their self-esteem.  Finally, because victims often blame themselves for what has happened, school officials also should take time to let them know this is not the case.170 

G.        Resist students' consumeristic tendencies

Deans, other administrators, and faculty must resist students' consumeristic tendencies.  Just because students pay tuition — sometimes very high tuition — does not mean they can control the discourse within the community.  Although students should be allowed to voice opinions and concerns, we should insist that those opinions and concerns be relevant and supported by logic and analysis.  We should emphasize that the teacher-student relationship is not that of consumer and service provider, but is more akin to a physician-patient relationship.171

As one author explained:

We need to keep traditional academic expectations in mind as we create a different relationship with students. Instead of letting students assume that merely paying tuition entitles them to a good grade, we must engage them in their own education, require them to take responsibility for their ultimate success, and acknowledge the role of faculty members as experts in their fields who are, nonetheless, still learning and fallible. The most appropriate analogy for such a new relationship comes from medicine, not business: Students are like patients, and professors are like doctors.

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Thinking of students as patients makes more sense than comparing them to customers. Students should be required to be active participants in their own education.  We should  make it clear that, just as doctors expect patients to take their medications and follow their therapies, educational achievement requires that students attend class, complete assignments, and think. Merely paying for an education does not ensure success. When was the last time you visited a doctor and were guaranteed good health if you simply made your co-payment, even if you ignored the doctor's advice?172

We should remind students that they are part of a community of scholars in which they have rights, but also have responsibilities.173  If students know that they cannot control or intimate others with rude demands and bad behavior, chances are that courtesy will replace incivility.

H.        Educate professors and administrators about cyberbullying

A final cure is to educate professors and administrators — especially those who deal regularly with students, such as the dean of students, the dean of academic affairs, and the registrar — about cyberbullying, and make sure they know how to react if they are the victim of a cyberbully or if another person reveals that he or she is a victim.  Make sure they know school policies regarding cyberbullies — including honor or conduct code provisions and computer-use policies — and to whom they should report instances of cyberbullying.  Also make sure they understand and follow strategies to preserve evidence — such as establishing a paper trail of the cyberbullies' communications — and to coordinate with the law school's information technology department, which might be able to help trace the cyberbullies who use campus computing resources.

V.        Conclusion

Cyberbullies have come to campus.  They can disrupt our classrooms, inflict severe emotional trauma on victims, and hinder our educational mission.  Bullies — especially ones who seek to enter the legal profession — must not be tolerated, or enabled.  We must stand up to their tactics and implement programs and policies that will send a strong message that bullying is not acceptable and will be punished.  We must support the victims, encourage bystanders to help stop the bullying, and establish a climate of mutual respect and support in which bullies are not likely to thrive.  We must stop cyberbullies for the good of our students, our staffs, our schools, and the legal profession.  


* Vice President and Dean, Stetson University College of Law. I want to extend a special thanks to Professor Peter F. Lake, the Charles A. Dana Chair and Co-Director of Stetson University College of Law's Center for Excellence in Higher Education Law and Policy, for his collaboration on many ideas that appear in this article. I also want thank Professors Daniel B. Weddle and Brooke J. Bowman for reviewing drafts, and Stetson law librarian Sally G. Waters and Stetson law student Paula Bentley for their exemplary research assistance.

1 See text accompanying infra n. 42.ADVANCE \d12

2 "IM" is the common abbreviation for "instant message" or "instant messaging."ADVANCE \d12

3 See e.g. Erin O'Connor, Beyond Incivility at Seton Hall, http://www.erinoconnor.org/archives/2003/02/beyond_incivili.html (Feb. 14, 2003) (recounting an episode at Seton Hall in which an adjunct professor discovered that her students posted scathing comments on www.myprofessorsucks.com).ADVANCE \d12

4 E.g. Jennifer Summerville & John C. Fischetti, How to Foil Cyberbullies, Chron. Higher Educ. (June 24, 2005) (available at http://chronicle.com) (describing messages sent to professors by a student enrolled in online college courses). ADVANCE \d12

5 Dorothy L. Espelage & Susan M. Swearer, Research on School Bullying and Victimization: What Have We Learned and Where Do We Go from Here? 32 Sch. Psychol. Rev. 365 (2003) (available at http://web4.epnet.com); Daniel B. Weddle, Bullying in Schools: The Disconnect between Empirical Research and Constitutional, Statutory, and Tort Duties to Supervise, 77 Temp. L. Rev. 641, 645 (2004).ADVANCE \d12

6 John H. Hoover & Ronald Oliver, The Bullying Prevention Handbook: A Guide for Principals, Teachers and Counselors 4  (Natl. Educ. Serv. 1996) (using the definition developed by Dan Olweus); see also id. at 5 (emphasizing that "bullying represents a chronic pattern of abuse over time, not individual or rare episodes").  Legislative definitions of "bullying" often differ from the definition used by educational and scientific researchers.  See Susan P. Limber & Mark A. Small, State Laws and Policies to Address Bullying in Schools, 32 Sch. Psychol. Rev. 445 (2003) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).  For this article, I will use the researchers' accepted definition. ADVANCE \d12

7 Hoover & Oliver, supra n. 6, at 5.ADVANCE \d12

8 Bullying does not include acts of "impulsive aggression . . . aggression that is a spontaneous, indiscriminate striking out, with no intended target."  Barbara Coloroso, The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander 39 (HarperResource 2003).ADVANCE \d12

9 Walter B. Roberts, Jr., The Bully as Victim: Understanding Bully Behaviors to Increase the Effectiveness of Interventions in the Bully-Victim Dyad, 4 Prof. Sch. Counseling 148 (Dec. 2000) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) (explaining that teasing can be a normal part of students' interaction, but that it can escalate into bullying if it becomes persistent, malicious, or threatening).ADVANCE \d12

10 Dan Olweus, Bullying at School 9 (Blackwell Publishing 1993); Denise Rinaldo, What's a Bully? 17 Scholastic Choices 12 (Oct. 2001) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).ADVANCE \d12

11 Dan Olweus, A Profile of Bullying at School, 60 Educ. Leadership 12 (Mar. 2003) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).ADVANCE \d12

12 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 9.ADVANCE \d12

13 Paul R. Smokowski & Kelly Holland Kopasz, Bullying in School: An Overview of Types, Effects, Family Characteristics, and Intervention Strategies, 27 Children & Schs. 101, 101 (Apr. 2005).ADVANCE \d12

14 Martin J. Dunn, Break the Bullying Cycle, 73 Am. Sch. & U. 38 (June 2001) (available at http://web4.epnet.com); Espelage & Swearer, supra n. 5, at 368.ADVANCE \d12

15 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

16 Id.ADVANCE \d12

17 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 18-19; Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

18 Olweus, supra n. 11; Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 11, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

19 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

20 John Hoover & Richard J. Hazler, Bullies and Victims, 25 Elementary Sch. Guidance & Counseling 212 (Feb. 1991) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).ADVANCE \d12

21 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 34.ADVANCE \d12

22 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

23 Hoover & Hazler, supra n. 20.ADVANCE \d12

24 For additional reasons why individuals may be singled out by a bully, see James Cook University, Why Bullying Happens, http://www.jcu.edu.au/office/eandsd/Bullying/why.html (last updated Sept. 29, 2004) (a sampling includes perceived over-achievement or success, over-enthusiasm, over-inquisitiveness, knowledge of personal indiscretion, and vulnerability arising from a death or maternity leave), and Hoover & Oliver, supra n. 6, at 13, fig. 2.1 ("Highest Ranked Reasons for Being Bullied") (the lists include "didn't fit in," physical weakness, clothing, facial appearance, overweight, good grades,  "friends were [bullied]," and homosexuality or rumored homosexuality). ADVANCE \d12

25 See Olweus, supra n. 10, at 40 (indicating that a parent's use of corporal punishment is a factor that can create aggression in children); see generally Ronald Oliver & I. Neal Oaks, Family Issues and Interventions in Bully and Victim Relationships, 41 Sch. Counselor 199 (Jan. 1994) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) (indicating that bullies often come from a "cool-to-cold emotional environment with a marginal-to-negligent lack of involvement . . . by the primary caregiver"; "[t]here will often be little in the way of family structure or rules"; "[g]eneral parental conflict and disharmony is common"; "[t]he parents of socially aggressive children tend to employ ineffective child management techniques"; and the parents sometimes use "excessive physical punishment").  ADVANCE \d12

26 Tara L. Kuther, Understanding Bullying, Our Children (magazine of the National PTA) (Oct. 2003) (available at http://www.potsdam.k12.ny.us/District/PTA/bully.htm); Marianne Kolbasuk McGee, School-Yard Bullies Add Internet to Arsenal of Pain, http://nwc.compliancepipeline.com/163700918 (May 25, 2005) ("Ironically, . . . the Internet is also empowering former victims of physical bullying to transform themselves into new cyberbullies. Sometimes the physically smaller 'geeky' kid, who's better with technology, gets back at his or her nemesis by using the Web as a weapon . . . . 'It's revenge of the nerds . . . ."); Bob Meadows et al., The Web: The Bully's New Playground, 63 People 152 (Mar. 14, 2005) (describing a situation in which a 14-year-old African American, who was subjected to racial epithets and called other names, retaliated against the classmates by writing on a web site popular with students at his school that the female name-caller was sexually promiscuous and that the male name-caller was gay).ADVANCE \d12

27 See Rana Sampson, Bullying in Schools 9 (Rep. 12, U.S. Dept. Justice, Off. Community Oriented Policing Servs. 2002) (available at http://www.cops.usdoj.gov).ADVANCE \d12

28 Id.ADVANCE \d12

29 Espelage & Swearer, supra n. 5, at 373 ("Anger has consistently emerged as an important correlate of bullying."); Olweus, supra n. 10, at 34.ADVANCE \d12

30 Espelage & Swearer, supra n. 5, at 373.ADVANCE \d12

31 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 103.  "Oppositional-conduct disorder" represents "a broad range of behaviors in pre-adolescent (3-12 years old) and adolescent children (13-18 years old). The behaviors [that] distinguish this disorder range from relatively minor behaviors such as yelling, whining, and temper tantrums to aggression, physical destructiveness and stealing."  Michael G. Conner, Understanding and Dealing with Conduct and Oppositional Disorders, http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/ConductOppositional.htm (last updated Mar. 29, 2004).ADVANCE \d12

32 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 36.ADVANCE \d12

33 Id.; Riittakerttu Kaltiala-Heino et al., Bullying at School — An Indicator of Adolescents at Risk for Mental Disorders, 23 J. Adolescence 661, 662 (2000); see also Timothy W. Kinlock et al., Factors Associated with Criminal Severity among Adolescents Entering Substance Abuse Treatment, J. Drug Issues 294 (Spring 2004) (finding, in a study of 178 adolescents entering an outpatient substance abuse center, significant connections between serious illegal activities and factors such as drug use, "being a bully, and being physically cruel to people.").ADVANCE \d12

34 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102.ADVANCE \d12

35 See Joy Cranham & Annemaree Carroll, Dynamics within the Bully/Victim Paradigm: A Qualitative Analysis, 19 Educ. Psychol. Prac. 113, 114 (2003) ("Bullies also tend to have little empathy for the victims of bullying."); M.E. Kabay, Presentation, Anonymity and Pseudonymity in Cyberspace: Deindividuation, Incivility and Lawlessness Versus Freedom and Privacy § 3.1.1 (Ann. Conf. European Inst. for Computer Anti-virus Research, Munich, Germany, Mar. 16-18, 1998) (available at http://www2.norwich.edu/mkabay/overviews/anonpseudo.htm) (accessed May 28, 2005)  ("Sometimes it seems that e‑mail flamers are engaged in their version of a video game; they give the impression of losing sight of the real human beings on the other end of their verbal aggression."); Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 102. 

According to Professor Pier Massimo Forni, an expert on civility, narcissism is a leading cause of bullying. "Forni pins partial blame on the self-esteem movement that dominated child-rearing and education in the 1970s and '80s.  'When we feed our children super-sized doses of self-esteem, we sometimes wind up with kids who are self-absorbed . . . .  They have trouble transcending their own immediate concerns . . . .  They are not considerate . . . they are not kind." Charlie Gillis, Rude Awakening, 117 Maclean's 28 (Apr. 5, 2004).ADVANCE \d12

36 Olweus, supra n. 11.ADVANCE \d12

37 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 24-25.ADVANCE \d12

38 Id. at 28, 30.ADVANCE \d12

39 Id. at 34-35; see also Richard J. Hazler et al., What Kids Say about Bullying, Exec. Educator 20, 21 (Nov. 1992) ("Many of the students we spoke with apparently believed that bullies had more social status than victims.").ADVANCE \d12

40 See Patrick J. Morrissette, Reducing Incivility in the University/College Classroom, 5 Intl. Elec. J. for Leadership in Learning, http://www.ucalgary.ca/%7Eiejll/volume5/morrissette.html (No. 4, May 14, 2001) ("Factors Contributing to Incivility").ADVANCE \d12

41 For a perceptive discussion of technology and civility, see Stephen L. Carter, Civility ch. 11 (HarperPerennial 1998).ADVANCE \d12

42 Bill Belsey, What Is Cyberbullying? www.cyberbullying.ca (accessed June 3, 2005).ADVANCE \d12

43 Leon Beckerman & John Nocero, You've Got Hate Mail, 3 Principal Leadership 38, 40 (Dec. 2002) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) ("Sitting behind a computer working the keyboard gives students a sense of power and control they do not have in a face-to-face situation . . . .  Students become bolder and say things that normally would not occur to them.").ADVANCE \d12

44 Betsy Flagler, A New Way to Bully: Cyberbullying, http://myschoolonline.com/page/0,1871,8775-145271-8-8499,00.html (accessed June 11, 2005)  ("Victims feel like they're tethered to their tormentors. Unlike with bullying in the halls at school, a cyberbully can follow you through the door of your home and be with you around the clock." (quoting Glenn R. Stutzky, a school violence expert from Michigan State University)).ADVANCE \d12

45 Kathleen Conn, Bullying and Harassment: A Legal Guide for Educators 152 (Assn. for Supervision & Curriculum Dev. 2004); Mark Franek, Rise of the Cyberbully Demands New Rules, Christian Sci. Monitor 9 (May 10, 2004) (available at http://www.csmonitor.com/2004/0501/p09s01-coop.htm).ADVANCE \d12

46 Jeffrey Selingo, Facing down the E-Maelstrom, Chron. Higher Educ. 27 (Apr. 29, 2005) (available at http://chronicle.com) ("[T]hanks to e-mail and more recently, blogs — news about even minor campus dust-ups is disseminated much more quickly, and well beyond the bounds of the college or local community.").  ADVANCE \d12

47 Kabay, supra n. 35. ADVANCE \d12

48 Most service providers will provide user identity information only if a subpoena is issued.  E.g. AOL Online, Privacy Policy, http://www.aol.com/info/p_privacy.adp ("AOL.com may share such information in response to legal process, such as a court order or subpoena, or in special cases such as a physical threat to you or others."); see generally Conn, supra n. 45, at 164 ("Internet bullying is hard to trace.  Internet service providers are not routinely required to identify users of their services.").ADVANCE \d12

49 Belsey, supra n. 42.ADVANCE \d12

50 Julie Blair, New Breed of Bullies Torment Their Peers on the Internet, 22 Educ. Week 6 (Feb. 5, 2003) (available at http://web4.epnet.com). ADVANCE \d12

51 Mean Girls (Paramount Home Studios 2004) (DVD).ADVANCE \d12

52 Gary Namie, Workplace Bullying: Escalated Incivility, Ivey Bus. J. 1, 2 (Nov./Dec. 2003) ("Women comprise 58 percent of the perpetrator pool, while men represent 42 percent.  Our research also shows that when the targeted person is a woman, she is bullied by a woman in 63 percent of cases; when the target is male, he is bullied by a man in 62 percent of incidents. . . .  Overall, women comprise the majority of people bullied (80 percent)."); see generally Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls (Harcourt, Inc. 2002).ADVANCE \d12

53 See supra nn. 15-19 and accompanying text.ADVANCE \d12

54 Parry Aftab, Why Do Kids Bully Each Other Online? Let Me Count the Ways . . . , http://www.netbullies.com/pages/2/index.htm (accessed June 17, 2005).ADVANCE \d12

55 Id.ADVANCE \d12

56 Id.ADVANCE \d12

57 Id.ADVANCE \d12

58 Id.ADVANCE \d12

59 Id.ADVANCE \d12

60 Id.ADVANCE \d12

61 Id.ADVANCE \d12

62 These e-mail messages often are referred to as "flame mail" or "hate mail."  "Flame mail" contains information designed to inflame or enrage the recipient; "hate mail" plays on prejudices and includes messages with racist and sexist comments.  Urban75 Info/Legal, Cyberbullying — Dealing with Cyber Bullies, Flame Mail, Hate Mail, http://urban75.org/info/bullying.html (accessed May 28, 2005).   Another form of e-mail bullying is known as "cyberstalking," which occurs when the bully sends messages that contains threats of harm, or messages that are "highly intimidating."  Nancy Willard, A Parents' Guide to Cyberbullying: Addressing Online Social Cruelty 1 (2004) (available at http://cyberbully.org); see generally Conn, supra n. 45, at 166-169 (defining cyberstalking and discussing state and federal laws against cyberstalking).ADVANCE \d12

63 U.K Natl. Workplace Bullying Advice Line, Bullying by Mobile Phone and Cell Phone: Abusive Text and Bullying by Text Messaging, http://www.bullyonline.org/schoolbully/mobile.htm (accessed May 28, 2005); Franek, supra n. 45; Amanda Paulson, Internet Bullying, 96 Christian Sci. Monitor (Dec. 30, 2003) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) (recounting a situation in Japan in which classmates of an overweight boy used a cell phone to snap pictures of him changing in the locker room and then widely distributed the shots). ADVANCE \d12

64 Willard, supra n. 62, at "Addressing Online Social Cruelty."  This conduct is known as "outing."  Id. at 2.ADVANCE \d12

65 Blair, supra n. 50 (a 12-year-old cyberbully impersonated an 11-year-old girl, wrote and sent several cruel e-mails messages using her account, and created a web site in the victim's name that defamed the victim's friend; as a result of this impersonation, the girl was ostracized by her peers); Jon Swartz, Schoolyard Bullies Get Nastier Online, USA Today 1A (Mar. 7, 2005).  This conduct is known as "impersonation."  Willard, supra n. 62, at "Cyberbullying — Online Social Cruelty."ADVANCE \d12

66 E.g. Paulson, supra n. 63 (describing a situation in California in which gossip and racist remarks were routinely posted).  These sites are often referred to as "bash boards."  Belsey, supra n. 42, at "Examples, Chat Rooms/Bash Boards."ADVANCE \d12

67 Peter F. Lake, Cyber Bullying in Class and on Campus, 3 Leadership Exchange 22, 22 (Summer 2005).  This conduct is known as "denigration." Willard, supra n. 62, at "Cyberbullying — Online Social Cruelty."ADVANCE \d12

68 Belsey, supra n. 42, at "Examples, Polling/Voting Booths."ADVANCE \d12

69 Willard, supra n. 62, at "Cyberbullying — Online Social Cruelty."ADVANCE \d12

70 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 9.ADVANCE \d12

71 Morrissette, supra n. 40, at "Effects on the Learning Environment."ADVANCE \d12

72 Summerville & Fischetti, supra n. 4 ("While Mr. Bully was enrolled in the online courses, his negative postings had a chilling effect on the flow of ideas. Several students reported to [the professor] that they were unwilling to post their assignments and discuss them because Mr. Bully posted derogatory comments about higher education and his peers' work in the course discussion forums.").ADVANCE \d12

73 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 32-33.ADVANCE \d12

74 Id. at 32.ADVANCE \d12

75 Kaltiala-Heino et al., supra n. 33, at 662; Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 104.  ADVANCE \d12

76 Id.; Bullies and Their Victims, 18 Harv. Mental Health Ltr. 4 (Nov. 2001) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).ADVANCE \d12

77 Valerie E. Besag, Bullies and Victims in Schools: A Guide to Understanding and Management 13 (Open U. Press 1989).ADVANCE \d12

78 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 33; Christina Salmivalli et al., How Do the Victims Respond to Bullying? 22 Aggressive Behavior 99, 100 (1996) (approximating that 14.3% to 17% of victims fall into the provocative category).ADVANCE \d12

79 Olweus, supra n. 10, at 33.ADVANCE \d12

80 Salmivalli et al., supra n. 78, at 101.ADVANCE \d12

81 Id.ADVANCE \d12

82 Id.ADVANCE \d12

83 Id.ADVANCE \d12

84 Id.; see id. at 108 (explaining that although nonchalant victims may feel hurt and unable to defend themselves against the bully, they react publicly in a way that will cause classmates to think they do not care about the bullying).ADVANCE \d12

85 See Namie, supra n. 52, at 3 (analogizing bullying to domestic violence).ADVANCE \d12

86 Hoover & Oliver, supra n. 6, at 10; Xin Ma et al., Bullying in School: Nature, Effects and Remedies, 16 Research Papers Educ. 247, 251 (Oct. 2001) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) ("Victims of bullying may lose interest in learning and experience a drop in academic grades because their attention is distracted from learning.").ADVANCE \d12

87 Besag, supra n. 77, at 54 ("Victims of bullying do appear to be trapped in the situation, frequently over a long period of time.  If they can see no way of escape, depression can result.").  ADVANCE \d12

88 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 104.ADVANCE \d12

89 Id.; see also Daniel B. Weddle, When Will Schools Take Bullying Seriously? 39 Trial 18, 19 (Oct. 2003) ("Many bystanders experience intense feelings of vulnerability and, in some cases, suffer the same emotional problems as the targets.").ADVANCE \d12

90 Smokowski & Kopasz, supra n. 13, at 104.ADVANCE \d12

91 Emmanuel N. Kuntsche & Gerhard Gmel, Emotional Wellbeing and Violence among Social and Solitary Risky Single Occasion Drinkers in Adolescence, 98 Addiction 331, 337 (2004).  Just as an inter-generational link may exist for bullies, supra nn. 27-28 and accompanying text, one also may exist for victims.  One study "found that adolescent victims, once they are adults, were more likely than non-bullied adults . . . to have children who are victims."  Sampson, supra n. 27, at 12.ADVANCE \d12

92 Willard, supra n. 62, at "Cyberbulling — Online Social Cruelty"; Mary Zimmerle, Cyber Bullying, http://www.imakenews.com/psla/e_article000127654.cfm (accessed June 1, 2005).ADVANCE \d12

93 Ma et al., supra n. 86, at 254.ADVANCE \d12

94 Id.; see generally Coloroso, supra n. 8, at 49.ADVANCE \d12

95 E.g. Lynne McDougall, A Study of Bullying in Further Education, Pastoral Care 31, 32 (June 1999) (available at http://web4.epnet.com) (college-aged student withdrew from college after being physically and verbally bullied); Meadows et al., supra n. 26 (14-year-old female victim of cyberbullying who finally switched schools when she became so anxious she could not sleep); Rinaldo, supra n. 10 (high-school student transferred to a boarding school to escape a bully).ADVANCE \d12

96 Bullies and Their Victims, supra n. 76.ADVANCE \d12

97 See Richard J. Hazler, When Victims Turn Aggressors: Factors in the Development of Deadly School Violence, 4 Prof. Sch. Counseling 105 (Dec. 2002) (available at http://web4.epnet.com); Bryan Vossekuil et al., The Final Report and Findings of the Safe School Initiative: Implications for the Prevention of School Attacks in the United States 15 (U.S. Secret Serv. May 2002) (available at http://www.secretservice.gov/ntac_ssi.shtml) (finding that 71% of 41 school shooters between 1974 and 2000 had been targets of  bullies); see also Mark Chapell et al., Bullying in College by Students and Teachers, screen 2, Adolescence (Spring 2004) (available at http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2248/is_153_39/ai_n6143558); Kuther, supra n. 26 ("The experience of bullying is also linked with violence, as the fatal school shootings in Littleton, Colorado and Jonesborough, Arkansas have illustrated.").ADVANCE \d12

98 E.g. Marianne D. Hurst, When It Comes to Bullying, There Are No Boundaries, 24 Educ. Week 8  (Feb. 9, 2005) (Norway was the first country to seriously address bullying, but did so only after three adolescents committed suicide after being bullied); Meadows et al., supra n. 26 (13-year-old cyber-victim committed suicide.).ADVANCE \d12

99 Morrissette, supra n. 40, at "The Underreporting of Student Civility."ADVANCE \d12

100 Id.ADVANCE \d12

101 See Coloroso, supra n. 8, at 48-53.ADVANCE \d12

102 Besag, supra n. 77, at 53.  As Besag also explains,

It is too painful to admit that one is [at the] bottom of the social heap and so very disliked.  Many victims prefer to keep their distress to themselves.  Although the confusion and complexity of the emotional turmoil of the victims of crime is becoming better understood, victims of bullying in school can still find themselves, with the best of intentions, subjected to intense interrogation by parent or teacher and cajoled, persuaded or demanded to disclose embarrassing or even dangerous information on the spot.

Id.ADVANCE \d12

103 Barbara Coloroso, A Bully's Bystanders Are Never Innocent, 70 Educ. Digest 49 (Apr. 2005).ADVANCE \d12

104 Id.ADVANCE \d12

105 Coloroso, supra n. 8, at 67.ADVANCE \d12

106 Id.ADVANCE \d12

107 Weddle, supra n. 5, at 649; see Weddle, supra n. 89, at 19 (explaining that some bystanders join in because the bully convinces them that the victim somehow deserves bad treatment). ADVANCE \d12

108 Kabay, supra n. 35, at § 3.1.ADVANCE \d12

109 Ma et al., supra n. 86, at 256 (describing a study of elementary school students in which 54% of the bystanders passively watched the bullying, 21% actively joined the bully, and 25% intervened to help the victim); see generally Rona S. Atlas & Debra J. Pepler, Observations of Bullying in the Classroom, 92 J. Educ. Research 86 (Nov./Dec. 1998) (relating the various ways school-aged bystanders react to bullying behavior).ADVANCE \d12

110 Coloroso, supra n. 8, at 66.ADVANCE \d12

111 See generally Timothy C. Caboni et al., Student Norms of Classroom Decorum, 99 New Directions for Teaching & Learning 59, 64 (Fall 2004) (finding that "students play an important role in sanctioning the behaviors of their class peers").ADVANCE \d12

112 For a specific case involving a student enrolled in online courses at a University, see Summerville & Fischetti, supra n. 4.ADVANCE \d12

113 Chapell et al., supra n. 97, at screen 2; see also Katie Muehlhausen, Presentation to Address Internet Stalking, Crimes, Purdue Exponent (Feb. 20, 2002) (available at www.purdueexponent.com) (describing the problem of Internet harassment); but cf. Espelage & Swearer, supra n. 5, at 372 (describing studies that have found that the "typical trajectory of bullying from a developmental perspective is an increase and peak during early adolescence, and a decrease in bullying during the high school years").

Bullying in the workplace is also becoming a problem.  Sarah B. Hood, Workplace Bullying, 77 Canadian Bus. 87 (Sept. 13, 2004) (available at http://web4.epnet.com); David C. Yamada, The Phenomenon of "Workplace Bullying" and the Need for Status-Blind Hostile Work Environment Protection, 88 Geo. L.J. 475, 479-481 (2000); PublicVirtues.com, Incivility in the Workplace, http://www.publicvirtues.com/Incivility_Study.html (accessed May 28, 2005) (discussing a 1999 survey conducted by professors at the University of North Carolina business school; "[s]urvey results indicated that twelve percent of the people [who] experience[d] rude behavior quit their jobs, while 52 percent reported losing work time and 22 percent of those surveyed deliberately decreased their work effort"; more than 78 percent of survey participants reported that "incivility has worsened in the past 10 years"); see generally Giovinella Gonthier, Rude Awakenings: Overcoming the Civility Crisis in the Workplace (Dearborn Trade Publg. 2002).ADVANCE \d12

114 McDougall, supra n. 95, at 31. Most students at this college were between 16 and 18 years old.  Id. ADVANCE \d12

115 Id. at 33. Bullying in adult settings, such as a college, is likely under-reported because young adults are less likely to seek help due to a perception that, as an adult, they should be able to handle the situation alone.  Id. at 32, 34.ADVANCE \d12

116 Id. at 33.  Plater College, another college in the United Kingdom, was closed in 2005 after inspectors discovered evidence of bullying, intimidation, drug use, and racial and sexual harassment.  Joe Clancy, College Axed after Report of Shame, Times Educ. Supp. 1 (Feb. 18, 2005) (abstract available at http://web4.epnet.com).   ADVANCE \d12

117 Stetson U. College of L., Staff and Student Policies, Code of Student Professionalism and Conduct, http://www.law.stetson.edu/policies/ConductCode.pdf (Jan. 2005).ADVANCE \d12

118 Although never proved, we suspected that the spoofer was the editor and publisher of the newsletter.  The spoofed e-mail was sent after the newsletter editor — using a pseudonym — sent me an e-mail message indicating he was aware that I had read several issues.  This editor also allegedly established a web site that contained negative information about the school.ADVANCE \d12

119 Because the e-mail had been routed through several different providers, we did not catch the culprit.ADVANCE \d12

120 This included moving them to a different section for all classes except for two that spanned the entire year.ADVANCE \d12

121 As you might imagine, professors and other school employees can be bullies or victims.  E.g. Elaine Showalter, Taming the Rampant Incivilityin Academe, Chron. Higher Edu. (Jan. 15, 1999) (available at http://chronicle.com) (describing incivility the author suffered from professional colleagues during her tenure as president of the Modern Language Association); cf. Yamada, supra n. 113, at 485 (citing a 1995 study of university faculty and staff in which more than 50% of respondents indicated that they had experienced bullying behavior in the workplace; superiors were the most typical perpetrators).ADVANCE \d12

122 Although anecdotal evidence suggests that bullying and cyberbulling are increasing in both the workplace and within educational institutions, it is not possible to determine the true extent of the problem, because no central tracking or reporting system exists.  Morrissette, supra n. 40, at "Tracking Uncivil Student Behavior."  However, experts do know that bullying is one of the most underreported safety problems in schools because victims and bystanders often are reluctant to report the bully.  Sampson, supra n. 27, at 1.  As a result, school officials "may underestimate the extent of bullying in their school and may be able to identify only a portion of the actual bullies."  Id. at 5.  ADVANCE \d12

123 Rudolph W. Giuliani, Leadership 435 (Hyperion 2002).ADVANCE \d12

124 Lake, supra n. 67; see generally Erling Roland & David Galloway, Classroom Influences on Bullying, 44 Educ. Research 299 (Winter 2002) (available at http://web10.epnet.com) (concluding that teachers' classroom management has a direct impact on bullying).ADVANCE \d12

125 See Olweus, supra n. 10, at 66 (explaining that awareness of the bullying issue is one key to solving the problem).ADVANCE \d12

126 See Bob Boice, Classroom Incivilities, 37 Research Higher Educ. 453, 458 (1996) ("The most experienced researchers on classroom incivilities assume that students and teachers are partners in generating and exacerbating it."); see also Morrissette, supra n. 40, at "Setting a Good Example" ("Faculty can inadvertently provoke a violent cycle by publicly debasing, humiliating, or invalidating students . . . or by making snide remarks.  From a systemic perspective, such antisocial behavior can invite hostile student reactions . . . .").ADVANCE \d12

127 See Nathaniel J. Bray & Marietta Del Favero, Sociological Explanations for Faculty and Student Classroom Incivilities, 99 New Directions for Teaching & Learning 9, 10 (Fall 2004) ("Faculty and student conduct are interlocking phenomena."). ADVANCE \d12

128 John J. Osborne, Jr., The Paper Chase (Amereon Ltd. 1971). ADVANCE \d12

129 See also Orin S. Kerr, The Decline of the Socratic Method at Harvard, 78 Neb. L. Rev. 113, 118 (1999) ("The most common complaint against the Socratic method is that it is cruel and psychologically abusive. Socratic professors are quick to criticize imperfect student answers, subjecting students to public degradation, humiliation, ridicule, and dehumanization.").ADVANCE \d12

130 See also Pearl Goldman & Leslie Larkin Cooney, Beyond Core Skills and Values Integrating Therapeutic Jurisprudence and Preventive Law into the Law School Curriculum, 5 Psychol. Pub. Policy & L. 1123, 1127 (1999) ("Stripped of human context, the case method teaches students 'that most law is a product of combat in the guise of litigation." (quoting Nancy L. Schultz, How Do Lawyers Really Think? 42 J. Leg. Educ. 57, 65 (1992)). ADVANCE \d12

131 See Boice, supra n. 126, at 458, 481; see generallyAddressing Faculty and Student Classroom Improprieties, 99 New Directions for Teaching & Learning (John M. Braxton & Alan E. Bayer eds., Fall 2004).ADVANCE \d12

132 It also is important to understand that many of our students use computers and other forms of technology not just as a practical tool, but as "a lifeline to their peer group."  Susan Keith & Michelle E. Martin, Cyber-Bullying: Creating a Culture of Respect in a Cyber World, 13 Reclaiming Children & Youth 224, 226 (Winter 2005).  Accordingly, student views about how they can and should use technology often differs from professors' perceptions of how technology should be used, particularly with regard to using computers in the classroom.ADVANCE \d12

133 This solution will allow students to take notes or access outlines on their laptop — most typically positive uses of technology in the classroom.ADVANCE \d12

134 As new classrooms are built or as older classrooms are remodeled, design elements can be used to help curb the conduct of classroom bullies.  For example, schools can design rooms in a way to include one or more aisles that would allow professors to move freely around more areas of the room.  See Lake, supra n. 67.  ADVANCE \d12

135 Jeffrey R. Young, Sssshhh. We're Taking Notes Here: Colleges Look for New Ways to Discourage Disruptive Behavior in the Classroom, Chron. Higher Educ. 29 (Aug. 8, 2003) (available at http://chronicle.com).ADVANCE \d12

136 See Margaret Sagarese & Charlene C. Giannetti, The Bystander: A Bully's Often-Unrecognized Accomplice, Our Children (magazine of the National PTA) (Nov.-Dec. 2003 issue) (available at http://www.potsdam.k12.ny.us/District/PTA/bully.htm) (emphasizing that "[b]ystanders make or break bullying episodes" and providing advice to would-be bystanders).ADVANCE \d12

137 E.g. Summerville & Fischetti, supra n. 4 (describing the acts of a cyberbully in online courses offered through a university).ADVANCE \d12

138 Id.ADVANCE \d12

139 Id.ADVANCE \d12

140 Examples of web sites on netiquette include NetM@nners.com, http://www.netmanners.com, Arlene H. Rinaldi, The Net: User Guidelines and Netiquette, http://www.fau.edu/netiquette/net (1998), and Yale University Library, What Is Netiquette? http://www.library.yale.edu/training/netiquette (last modified Oct. 27, 2004).  Cornell University also has comprehensive policies and procedures regarding use of campus computing resources and a strong training program for new students.  Cornell U., Computing at Cornell, Students, http://www.cit.cornell.edu/computer/students/ (last modified May 23, 2005).ADVANCE \d12

141 Robert L. Heinemann, Presentation, Addressing Campus-Wide Communication Incivility in the Basic Course: A Case Study 24 (Ann. Mtg. Speech Communic. Assn., San Diego, CA Nov. 23-26, 1996) (available on at http://www.eric.ed.gov) (ERIC Doc. No. ED404710) ("The language of disagreement should be to a large extent the language of respectful listening.").ADVANCE \d12

142 See Morrissette, supra n. 40, at "Effective Communication Skills."ADVANCE \d12

143 See Carter, supra n. 41, at 28-29 (explaining that leaders of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference "knew that success would be found not through incivility, but through the display of moral courage").ADVANCE \d12

144 For an article chock-full of examples regarding the lack of professionalism in documents submitted to courts, see Judith D. Fischer, Bareheaded and Barefaced Counsel: Courts React to Unprofessionalism in Lawyers' Papers, 31 Suffolk U. L. Rev. 1 (1997).  It is also important to alert students to local rules and customs about civility.  For example, in 2003, the South Carolina Supreme Court promulgated a court rule that requires in-state lawyers to sign a civility oath and to complete a continuing legal education course on ethics and civility.  Stephanie Francis Ward, Swearing to Be Civil: South Carolina Makes Courtesy a Requirement, 4 ABA J. e-Report (June 10, 2005) (available at http://www.abanet.org/journal/ereport/jn10civil.html).ADVANCE \d12

145 Gay G. Cox & Robert J. Matlock, The Case for Collaborative Law, 11 Tex. Wes. L. Rev. 45, 45-46 (2004).ADVANCE \d12

146 Cf. Olweus, supra n. 10, at 89-92 (suggesting cooperative learning as one technique to reduce bullying in schools).ADVANCE \d12

147 David B. Wexler, Therapeutic Jurisprudence and Legal Education: Where Do We Go from Here? 71 Rev. Jur. U.P.R. 177, 178 (2002).ADVANCE \d12

148 David Wexler, Therapeutic Jurisprudence: An Overview, 17 Thomas M. Cooley L. Rev. 125, 125 (2000).ADVANCE \d12

149 Id. at 126.ADVANCE \d12

150 Namie, supra n. 52, at 4.ADVANCE \d12

151 Lake, supra n. 67; McDougall, supra n. 95, at 34; see also Summerville & Fischetti, supra n. 4 (suggesting that student codes expressly mention bullying in online courses).ADVANCE \d12

152 Summerville & Fischetti, supra n. 4 ("User agreements should prohibit the sending of any threatening, harassing, or otherwise inappropriate message to a member of the university community by any means or medium.").ADVANCE \d12

153 Gavin Hughes, Examples of Good Practice When Dealing with Bullying in Further/Higher Education College, Pastoral Care 10, 11 (Sept. 2001) (available at http://web4.epnet.com).ADVANCE \d12

154 See generally Conn, supra n. 45, at 152-174. ADVANCE \d12

155 Fred Hartmeister & Vickie Fix‑Turkowski, Getting Even with Schoolyard Bullies: Legislative Responses to Campus Provocateurs, 195 Educ. L. Rep. 1, 5-6  (Mar. 24, 2005) (discussing statutes from Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Georgia, Illinois, Louisiana, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, Oklahoma, Oregon, Rhode Island, Vermont, Washington, and West Virginia).  An anti-bullying law took effect in Virginia on July 1, 2005.  2005 Va. Acts ch. 461.  A bill is pending in Washington state that would add cyberbullying to its current statute that addresses bullying, harassment, intimidation, and violence in schools.  Wash. Substitute Sen. 5849, 59th Leg., 2005 Sess. (Mar. 2, 2005) (available at http://www.leg.wa.gov/pub/billinfo/2005-06/Pdf/Bills/Senate%20Bills/5849-S.pdf) (at this time this article was written, the bill was pending in a senate committee). ADVANCE \d12

156 Namie, supra n. 52, at 2; see Vicki Bell & Denise de La Rue, Gender Harassment on the Internet, http://www2.gsu.edu/~lawppw/lawand.papers/harass.html